boy trouble at the max

so i need help. im goin out with a guy named deven. and we are goin on 5 months. and was happy but now im noticing more bad thing about him. im 17 and work on a farm. he is 19 and has no job. now i smoke and he always wants me to give him ciggeretes. so i do. but lately i have been trying to make him happy and buy him food, cloths, stoges and im like out of money. and he still asks me for stuff. a couple of days ago i bought a new pack of cigerettes and he automatically said can i have some and i said no. so he got all grumpy and was like "why not?" and i cant take it.

im a shy person i dont like to display affection in front of my friends and thats all he wants when we are at his house (which is every day) all he wants to do is cuddle and do other things. and dont get me wrong i like to cuddle but not that much. well i was just gonna talk to him about it. well i was talkin to his cousin chris who is my best friend aabout it and he said "if you dont like him anymore dump him, he has been a mooch sence he was a kid." so i thought about it and i asked chris how i would do it and he just said "just sit him down and do it"

later that day chris texted me again and said if i brake up with deven would i ever giver him a chance. and i dont know what to do i like chris but im goin out with deven and i dont wanna hurt him, and if i did brake up with deven and go out with chris, deven would hate him and i dont want me to come between them. and i dont even know if i did brake up with deven if i would go out with chris. i just dont know if i should brake up with deven, but it feels like he is useing me. please HELP!!!!!!!

Finally a new post!

yea, sorry about that, but it's been awhile.

anyway, you already know my thoughts on it but i figured that maybe if i posted here now it might kickstart things. (and jeff, if you decide not to respond just because i said that i will eat your babies)

jeremy lol....

but anyways i think that you should definitly break up with him.....like no question asked break up with him....but for the chris thing i say u stay single for a lil bit then maybe try it then with chris....but yea anyways break up with him

well he should realize that you are hurting for money and whtnot and not be a retard yer he still is so im staying with wht i said before

i suppose i can see it both ways. but just an FYI, she broke up with him. she has an account on Gothic.net where she made a similar thread. she posted it there thatshe broke up with him.

problem solved i guess......hope.....*crosses fingers*

yay!!!! be happy i have faith in you

:p

tom i gotta talk to you jeremy about this forum

yea.......